Oh pooh need not worry your head with the troubles of others for you have your own divine purpose in the world, so be it they choose not listen to advice in which most cases I am sure they ask, then let them live with consequences of the choices they made, as you must live with choices you have made. Live in happiness knowing with pride in your heart that thou did choose to offer in purity that advice which would lead them down the easiest future pathway. Do not let such woes hinder your own travels for you are your own number one.
In helping others we mortals may only offer advice, we cannot make their choices, hence we get what we had here once before, that makes you none the less a wise and soulful spirit so fret not when they choose other than what you offered, live on in smiles.